Moms Moms Moms: Consent & Safety Guidelines
How to Move With Consent
Behave with beauty.
Connect with intention.
Moms Moms Moms is an experimental art space, a pop-up strip club, and a place for care to become performance. This space is for release, connection, and devotion. To make that possible, we hold each other to a standard of respect and safety.
We believe in radical consent: a culture where boundaries are honored, voices are heard, and no one is invisible.
Our Safer Spaces Policy
Everyone is welcome.
We have zero tolerance for harassment, unwanted touch, or discriminatory behavior of any kind (sexist, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ableist, etc.).
Always ask before touching. Don’t assume.
Only enthusiastic yes means yes.
Silence = no
Mumbling = no
Uncertain body language = no
All bathrooms are gender neutral.
If you feel unsafe or uncomfortable, please reach out immediately to a staff member, guardian of the space, or organizer. We will believe you and we will help.
Consent 101 for Attendees
Ask first, always. Whether it’s a hug, a lap dance, a photo, or a conversation that’s getting close, check in.
Listen to no. A no doesn’t require an explanation. Respect it and move on.
Have your own script ready. If you need to set a boundary, you can say:
“I’d like to dance alone right now.”
“No, thank you.”
“Please give me space.”
Report boundary violations. If someone makes you uncomfortable, please tell us right away. Protecting yourself protects others.
Consent 101 for Organizers & Staff
Clear Policy. We state our consent policy everywhere: tickets, invites, signage, announcements.
Training. Guardians of the space are here to support you. They are trained to listen, believe, and act.
Visible Signs. Look for reminders around the venue. Bathrooms, bar, and quiet corners all have signs with support info.
Our Collective Agreement
Moms Moms Moms is an experiment in flipping the strip club on its head. We are celebrating caregiving, embodiment, and expression outside of the male gaze. That requires care and responsibility from everyone in the room.
Consent is how we keep each other safe.
Consent is how we keep the vibe alive.
Consent is how we rage with beauty.
Moms Moms Moms is an online and in-person experience reclaiming the narrative around motherhood, sexuality, and creativity.
The online group meets weekly to explore eros, creativity, and the realities of postpartum life—welcoming mothers at any stage. Once a month, we open the space to anyone who loves and supports moms.
The series culminates on October 17th in NYC with a live erotic variety show inspired by strip clubs, temples, and the unseen labor of motherhood.
Moms Moms Moms challenges the limiting archetypes of maiden, mother, and matron, rejecting the idea that women must trade desirability for wholesomeness. We’re creating the world we wish existed: one where mothers are unapologetically seen, honored, and celebrated.
